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Friday, June 17, 2011

3 Attributes of Cool People

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Hi there everyone!!

Our events are always different (innovative and creative), but there’s one common element that is our winning formula.

Our community has cool people, and so our parties are full of cool people.

Why? What’s so special about the people we know?

These are three qualities we have distinguished, which you can employ to better your experience at events.

1. Being Proactive.

This means that when you are at an event, you don’t just hang around the people you came with. You are proactive. You make the effort to approach people you do not know, or would like to know more. You start interesting conversations. And you take initiatives to laugh, play, and deepen relationships.

2. Being Open.

This means that when you are looking at someone, or talking to someone, that you do not prejudge who they are. You are open to their perspectives, their behaviors, and their lifestyle choices. You truly consider what the other person has to say, and you allow for a space which has them feel accepted.

3. Being Authentic.

This means that when you are sharing with someone, you don’t try to put up an image or hold status. You’re more than honest, you’re vulnerable. You take the time to express yourself completely, so that you can have substance to your connections.

Are you proactive? Are you open? Are you authentic?

The best way to be that way is to be around people who are that way.

That’s why people in our community are constantly asking me to host another party.  Although I love hosting parties, they are a lot of work, and they cost money to produce.

Maybe soon...

Let's love the world together...

Love,
[)anish /|hmed, blind visionary

P.S. Share this article with others.  Whatever event they may be attending next, they may benefit from these distinctions around networking and communication.

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