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Showing posts with label spirituality. Show all posts
Showing posts with label spirituality. Show all posts

Thursday, October 1, 2009

7 Totally Different Ways to Give Big to People (& Movie)

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Hey All You Big Givers!!

The first thing we may think of when we think of giving, is money (or gifts and presents which cost money). However, some of us may feel financially constrained . . . The second thing we may think of when we think of giving, is our time. With fast-paced lifestyles and busy schedules, perhaps that's a tall order, too.

But wait! There are so many different ways to give. Don't think we need only time and money to make a difference. Here are five additional ways in which we can all give big:

1. Giving of our Space

This could be giving a seat on a bus or letting someone go ahead of us in a lineup. This could be opening our doors and inviting our neighbors into our homes. Or, we could simply be generous in giving people the space to be whoever they want to be. Let's not judge others so quickly; let's increase our level of acceptance.

2. Giving of our Heart

Take the time to really listen to someone. Feel what they are feeling. Understand who they are and why they are who they are. Let's really put ourselves in their shoes.

3. Giving of our Soul

This is giving of ourselves at a spiritual level. It may be in the form of praying for somebody. It may involve meditating on helping someone else, and uncovering solutions to their problems. Or, it can simply be sending off positive energy vibes.

4. Giving of our Spirit

This is giving without reason and giving without any conditions, attachments or expectations. But what are we giving? Smiles, hugs, and compliments. It is giving joyfully with enthusiasm. When combined with giving money or time, it is giving without ever having any worry as to whether our gift will be mismanaged or misused.

5. Giving of our Being

Giving of ourselves completely is giving 100% of ourselves. What does this look like? It can look like anything . . . Recipients experience it as empathy, compassion, and love.

Let's experiment with different ways of giving. Different things work for different people, so let's give in ways that will be meaningful to others.

Watch a 3-minute movie about Giving - Press Play below:

Or watch it in Full Screen Mode.

Let's love the world together...

Love,
[)anish /|hmed, blind visionary

P.S. If you're wondering what the "other two" ways of giving are, don't forget time and money.  They are still very powerful ways of giving.

Tuesday, September 29, 2009

5 Levels of Faith

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Hi there Faith-Seekers!!

Faith is a word that is talked about a lot in personal development. Many of us may conceptually understand what faith is. We may even make conscious efforts to employ faith consistently in our lives. But do we really utilize faith in ALL areas of our lives? We may not. We may have faith in certain areas of our lives, yet unconsciously lack it in other areas. What would your life look like if you had faith in ALL areas of your life? How would you feel, what would you accomplish? Distinguishing some of the areas in which we can employ faith, gives us conscious choice to employ faith in ways we may not think possible.

What is Faith?

Faith is the ability to believe that adversity has a higher meaning than we can realize. Faith is the active process of persevering through challenging circumstances, despite rational or logical judgment.

Here's a situation . . . Let's suppose we've been running a business for two years and haven't turned a profit. In the face of barriers, we choose to keep going. Are we employing faith? That depends. For example, if all our family and friends believe in our inevitable success and encourage us to continue, then we are NOT employing faith. With these circumstances, we are simply using evidence (social proof) to justify our cause. However, if our family and friends were to tell us that it won't work and that we should stop, and we continue anyway - then we would be employing faith. We would be believing and acting upon something without any tangible evidence.

Faith in Ourselves

As humans, we mess up at times. I'm sure all of us can remember moments from our past that we are not proud of or happy about. Having faith in ourselves is knowing that everything from our past has or will serve a purpose. Having faith in ourselves is knowing that every difficult experience we face adds importance to our lives, even if we may not be conscious of it.

Faith in People

We live in a world where we interact with many other people, so having faith in ourselves is not enough. Sure, some people may lack integrity or may be acting in ways that aren't consistent with our values. Having faith in people is knowing that all people do the best they can with the resources they have. Having faith in other people is demonstrated through trust, even when other people may be untrustworthy.

Faith in Our Country

Regardless of the political system we (as a country) choose, there will invariably be times when we disagree with the principles/actions of our leaders. In fact, we may feel that there's no use in even voting. Having faith in our country is feeling the pride of living in the greatest, freest country in the world (if you don't think so, you can always focus on an aspect of your national history/culture that you love). Yes, there may be great ills and obstacles that we have yet to overcome - having faith is the willingness to think and act long-term, seeing ourselves overcoming those obstacles by taking proactive roles in the transformation of that construct.

Faith in Our World

Today, as you are reading this, there are many wars happening around the world. Some people are surprised that we haven't blown ourselves to bits already! Having faith in our world is understanding that change and transformation can take many generations. There may be a few "evil" forces out there . . . Having faith in the world is realizing that the "greater good" will always prevail.

Faith in God

There are so many religions out there, all claiming that they are "the right one." If there was a true and just God, why would He allow all of us to go through the headache of trying to figure who the right God is? Is there a "right" God? Are they really different Gods, or are they all the same God? Having faith in God is trusting in His ways. We are mortal, being conscious only for a fraction of eternal time. Having faith in God is knowing that whatever our current path may be, our current path is perfect just the way it is.

Too Much Faith?

Maybe you've had these thoughts: When I have faith in other people, they take advantage of me! When I have faith in God, I always get disappointed! How do I know WHEN to employ faith?

That's a good question. In fact, I'm not suggesting that we employ faith "all the time" or that we don't use our rational and logical judgment. That would be a little silly. However, every successful person I know or have read about went through many stages in their lives where nothing was going their way. In every area of their life, they had no support. They had to go past the visible evidence around them, and enter into the "unseen." They had to employ faith in all ways.

So the question is, are you at a similar point in your life? Have you tried everything, and nothing has worked? Are you at the end of your rope? If the answer to those questions is "Yes," then ask yourself the following questions:

1. Do I have faith in myself?
2. Do I have faith in people?
3. Do I have faith in my country?
4. Do I have faith in our world?
5. Do I have faith in God?

Let's love the world together...

Love,
[)anish /|hmed, blind visionary

Friday, September 25, 2009

7 Core Distinctions of Personal Development ~ The Bridge Between Theory & Application

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Hi there everyone!!

What is Personal Development? There are so many words that we, or other marketers may use to describe what we think personal development is. For example, we may have heard of self-help, self-improvement, or peak-performance. We may have seen the concept targeted to a specific market, such as "professional" development. Or, if we're on the cutting-edge, we may have heard of the new trillion dollar "wellness industry."

Ultimately, personal development is about improving ourselves in any possible way, in any possible aspect of our lives. It doesn't matter if it's health, finances, time management, relationships, communication, or confidence building. For simplicity, we may just want to call various programs non-traditional "educational systems." After all, they all attempt to educate us in varying non-linear methods.

There are lots of educational systems today that we may not realize the kind of impact they can have, or be aware of all the different methodologies of change that are available to us. Let's distinguish some of the roots of personal development.

Philosophy

Our history has had numerous great philosophers, from Aristotle to Socrates. Such philosophers have had significant influence on our modern society. Recently, some people would argue that there's no need for philosophers in our economy today. However, the basis of many personal development programs take the ancient wisdom of philosophers, build upon it, and teach us how to apply it in our daily living. We could even say that some professional speakers are our modern-day philosophers.

Therapy

There are a multitude of different kinds of therapies out there, from Gestalt therapy to Cognitive therapy and even Non-directive therapy. With a similar mission to help better the lives of people, most therapies work at some level to achieve this goal. In fact, the early stage of Anthony Robbins' work was to understand the fundamental principles of all therapies and encapsulate the common denominators that help people to change.

Psychology

Psychology has been used to understand the way we behave, the way we interact with others, and the way we function in society. Dr. Robert Childini wrote a popular book called "Influence" which outlines some of these great discoveries. This book has been used by personal development icons to illustrate to us how our minds think and how we can use this knowledge to better our lives.

Science

Science is the ability to create a hypothesis and find proof that creates a working theory. People have used science to discover ways our bodies and minds work in order to have them work a certain way. This has created abilities in individuals that we would never have thought possible. For example, Neuro-Linguistic Programming is a science that teaches us how to have the ability to condition our bodies. That is, to cause certain emotions and physical characteristics on a whim!

Metaphysics

The study of metaphysics is the study of thought and energy, and how they influence each other in our existence. It is within this non-physical paradigm that we believe our thoughts really do create our reality. This is an area that has historically caused controversy. Now, with people like Dr. Wayne Dyer and Deepak Chopra popularizing it, society is becoming much more enriched by its teachings.

Spirituality

Most religions try to give us a framework to live our lives effectively. Unfortunately, some religions have too much of a righteous connotation to attract every individual. As a result, we now have books like The Celestine Prophecy and Conversations With God that truly take a holistic spiritual approach in helping people lead powerful and productive lives.

Culture

We know what our culture is like from our environments and the modern day media. If we study history, we may also find how culture has been dramatically different over the course of our evolution. What's interesting however, is discovering what elements of culture have remained the same over literally millions of generations. We first started to pass down moments of our history and ancestry through the art of story-telling. These stories would have a common theme, a meaning or moral which would soon transform into what we today call legends or mythology. While some of that may have transformed into modern day religion, the underlining principals of successful life living can be found today in different cultures around the world.

We can find examples of heroic, personal growth stories in many mediums. We can read about it in the story King Arthur or the plot of the Iliad and the Odyssey. We see it in Dante's Divine Comedy, in Ramayana of the East, in Jack and the Beanstalk, and we see it the game Dungeons and Dragons.

Modern day media, though scrutinized by many, is no exception to demonstrating the stories of ordinary people doing extraordinary things. Messages of hope, faith, and inspiration can be found in music like "Don't Worry, Be Happy" by Bobby Mcferrin, and in books like the Chicken Soup for the Soul series. Star Trek is an example of popular culture that continually demonstrates the great characteristics of being human. And movies like "Pay It Forward" illustrate to the mass populous that, no matter how difficult, we still have dreams and aspirations to create a utopian society.

See more quotes from our culture with a tribute.

Putting It All Together

There may be more roots to the personal development industry. What's certain is that each root has its own unique advantage and relatedness to different types of people. What will cause the explosion in the "wellness" industry is these categories coming together and mutually benefiting each other. In fact, this is already happening to a certain degree. Look at Scientology which combines science and spirituality. Look at Landmark Education Corporation, which uses some of the Eastern philosophies combined with the study of ontology (branch of metaphysics that deals with the nature of being). Look at Dr. Phil McGraw who puts together relationship psychology and personal development in context of a talk show. Look at the popular "Body for Life" program that combines fitness with various aspects of personal development. And, look at the network marketing industry which utilizes psychology, spirituality, and culture.

So what is Personal Development? It is the bringing together of many disciplines that will help us to grow personally, locally, and globally. Martin Luther King Jr. was a real catalyst in helping us to put aside our cultural differences. In his "I Have A Dream" speech, he said, "...where little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls and walk together as sisters and brothers." Now I think there's a new dream in the horizon. A dream where we're not just "willing" to work with different people. In fact we are learning to work "effectively" with different people, as we learn to understand ourselves, other personalities and cultures, our relationships, and our place in the universe.

The wellness industry isn't just another big economy. It's an evolutionary process that will transform our society.

Let's love the world together...

Love,
[)anish /|hmed, blind visionary